The waiting and waiting and waiting and waiting....

I have not made any updates to this site in awhile as we are in the waiting stage right now.  Anyone who has an experience with adoptions knows what we mean by the waiting stage.  We knew when we started this process nearly 15 months ago that the waiting time for Thailand adoptions was 2-3 years.  I keep trying to remember "in God's time".  Sometimes I just want God's time to be Lisa's time.  How I long to bring this little girl home forever.

While officially we have only been in the official process for 15 months, but adoption has and the love of caring for all God's children has been in our hearts for years.

Father, you knew us before we were born.

And you chose us to be your children.  

Father, you faithfully watch over and protect us.

Your plan for our lives gives us hope and a future.

Knowing that God has the plan for us and the perfect timing for our daughter gives me hope for our future.

We continue to need prayers from our family and friends as we walk in this journey to our Thai princess.  

Please pray for our daughter, her biological parents and the caregivers she has while in Thailand.

 Pray for Christopher and Joshua as they begin to transition to include another sibling in our house.

Pray that God will lead us to the little girl he has intended for our family.

Prayer for God's financial provisions on our adoption.

  Prayer for other families around the world to put adoption in their hears to bring their child home.

Place on Holt waiting list....

Our adoption agency matches children (referrals) with their forever families every quarter.  We are moving up on the list to bring our baby girl home.  We are now Number 12 on the list. With the typical referral groups we are looking at March or June 2013 to receive our daughter referral and then about 6 months after that to travel. 

So, maybe by this time next year - she will be home with us!!

Christopher's  new bedroom.

Joshua's new bedroom.

Our Thai princess's new bedroom.

The nesting time for our little girl has begun..... Christopher and Joshua have moved rooms and a little girl bedroom is in the works. We have painted a pink wall and I have purchased new borders and decals for her wall.  Sorry - the lighting is not that great for these pictures.

Borders and decals which will will put up shortly!

We also plan to create a new playroom out of our current formal living room (which we never use) for the "littles" (her and Joshua) as our family room is being overtaken by Joshua toys and the current playroom (in the basement) has mostly Christopher toys.  We will continue to keep the basement playroom more of a place that Christopher can hang out with his friends.

New kitchen playset

Barbies, Barbie RV and doll carrier.

Some of my latest items acquired for "littles" playroom.  Joshua likes playing with his sisters new Barbie RV and new kitchen.  When we ask Joshua where his sister is he says "In Thailand", and usually follows with "where is Thailand's house."

I am only one...I can not do everything...But God has called us to do something...What is in your heart today??

USCIS Fingerprinting done

Yesterday we went to the USCIS office to get our official fingerprints taken.  Now another step closer to bringing you home.


The process went pretty smoothly we were in and out in about 30 minutes.

DTT and a number!!!

It has been a long time since I have updated our adoption blog and a lot has happened in the past few months - so here goes....

Our dossier has been approved and we are on the waiting list for Thailand.  We are DTT (dossier to Thailand!!) and have been on this magnificent journey for a little over 9 months now.  I have spent the first 9 months and have finished most of this "paperwork pregnancy" stage of our quest for our princess to join our house.  You have two big brothers waiting for you!!  Soon our little girl will be joining these two boys.

Christopher and Joshua - May 2012

With two little boys around, I do not have many dolls, bows, pink or "girly things" around.  My house is full of nerf guns, hotwheels, computers and a lot of TESTERONE!!!  But that will change when you come home.

Christopher's Nerf gun collection

I long for the day that she will be in my arms and I will put pink bows in her hair, daddy doesn't let me put bows in the boys hair, at least not when he is around. :)

It still may be more than a year before you are home, but we will be ready for our princess.  I actually saw this on freecycle a few weeks ago and had to get it for you.  We have your toy box ready, now I am on the search for dolls to fill it up for you.  Dresses and bows are in the future also...

Little Tikes PINK toy box for my Thai princess. It will be holding her dolls soon!!!

We are Number 26

Our adoption agency places families on the waiting list and assigns each family a number once they have their dossier in. The Thai government releases referrals quarterly to Holt - the last few quarters have had 4-5 referrals for the regular healthy infant program, so that would make our referral a little over a year away (I will have to exert a lot of patience here).  We are also on the Thailand waiting child program for a special needs child - so those referrals sometimes come quicker.  We are currently Twenty Six for the healthy infant program - Of course like everyone I was hoping for a lower number, but in God's time.  The perfect time for you to join us is already known by God... so I will wait... maybe not so patiently at times....

“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future” – Jeremiah 29:11

Your future is with us......


DTT

After months of paperwork, signatures and certifications our dossier was finally complete and was mailed and accepted by Holt on March 30th.

Paperwork sent to courier for Thai embassy and Department of State signatures.

Creating final dossier packets to send to Holt.

Final Dossier packets.

I-800A accepted
We received confirmation our I-800A was accepted by US Citizenship and Immigration Services on April 26th.  Next step is the official fingerprints for Immigrations.  Our biometrics appointment is scheduled for next week.

I am longing for the day to hold you in my arms my sweet baby girl....

You're gonna have all of me
You're gonna have all of me
'Cause you're worth every falling tear
You're worth facing any fear
You're gonna know all my love
Even if it's not enough
Enough to mend our broken hearts
But giving you all of me is where I'll start

Finding Pictures

The dossier is on route to the US State Department and the Thai Embassy.  One of the additional requirements are some family photos depicting our family life.  These photos  did not need to have the certifications from the embassy and state department, but need included with our final package to the adoption agency.

This is what the requirement from our agency stated:

" Photo's for the Thai government’s Department of Social Development & Welfare, please take care to choose nice photos to represent your family and home to the Thai government. Tape or glue a total of 6-10 good quality photos (photo-quality prints) of your family and the interior and exterior of your home on 81⁄2" x 11" paper or cardstock. Label each picture and include your names. Use discretion and good taste when selecting your photos. Remember, pictures play an important role in introducing you to the officials in Thailand. They are interested in seeing what the home and family environment looks like."


With me being a pretty avid scrapbooker, I have 1000's of photos to choose from.
How do I find only 10 photos?  Which ones should I choose?  


I printed out about 50 different pictures and finally Chris and I narrowed down what we thought to be the top 10.  We wanted to include ones of the boys playing together, pictures of both inside and outside of the house and things we do as a family.  I hope we picked the right ones.  


Here are the 10 images of our family that will be sent to the Thai government.

I think these depict our family pretty well.

"Busy"ness in life

To my Thai Princess
First - I have not forgotten about you. Constantly I hear a song on the radio, read an article in a magazine, hear something on the news or just see someone on the street and I think about you.  I wonder will you look like, how will you act, will you be more nature or nurture.  I know my road to have you in my arms is at least a year away (probably much longer), but I am already looking for "girly" or pink stuff on freecycle or garage sales.  I just found a PINK toy box last week on freecycle and it will be waiting for you when you come home.

Now on to my conviction on "busy"ness in my life
The past two months have flown by and I can not believe that we are already half way through March.  Work has been swamped with teaching courses and developing/redeveloping and updating additional ones.  I now know more than I ever thought I would on biometrics, photolithography and radio frequencies.  I have always been an IT person and this alternate technology realm is somewhat new to me.  Family life is always busy with  little boys around and mine has been no different.  Christopher had his 5^th grade play, many boy scout events, homework projects and many Wii/DS nights at home.  My favorite 2-year old (Joshua) is growing so fast and is learning new things daily.  I love to sit down with him to play cars or read a book (he loves to sit in my lap and read books).  Church volunteer life is always hectic, but I enjoy teaching the 4-years olds on Sunday mornings and hanging with the kiddos at the food pantry on Wednesdays.  Teaching children about God’s love has always been a passion for me and I am so blessed that I have the opportunity to do so in various capacities.  Next is the magnificent time I get to spend with friends - Scrapbooking days, Lord of the Rings festivals, meeting for lunches, Game nights, video parties and so many more.

When ever I have a few minutes to spare, I know there is laundry to be done or dishes to wash or a game of Words with Friends I need to get to.  I have no excuses, but I have been putting off the dossier paperwork finalization.  Whenever I looked at it, I would get frustrated or confused about something and then got busy with something else.

Our home study was approved in January, but I found out the end of January that I was still waiting for some type of accreditation document from Lutheran Social Services that needed included with the dossier.  It was some issue with notarizing the Virginia license.  I guess they have a main office in DC that had some of the documents that were needed and they had to be notarized by a DC notary and then others that had to be notarized by a Virginia notary.  It finally came a few weeks ago.

And over the past week, we have finally spent time on the paperwork and it is on track AGAIN.  Last week our dossier traveled to the Commonwealth of Virginia and has now been sealed with Virginia’s seal.  I contacted the courier service recommended by our adoption service and they have received my package today with the completed dossier in it for additional certification.  It is now on transport to the US State Department and the Thailand Embassy in Washington DC for their certifications and seals.

Priorities in my life are: God – Family – Everything Else.  I am usually pretty good about that with my Chris, Christopher and Joshua family.  I just need to keep integrating her in that set of my priorities.

Other families in this process
I would love to stay in contact with other families in the Thailand adoption process and learn about specifics in your process.  If you could send me a private email at lisapadress@yahoo.com with contact information I can stay in contact with you.

Thailand/Levi HS Approval

Thailand/Levi HS Approval
That is the subject line that I received yesterday from Laura Richardson - Holt's Thailand Program.

The Holt Thailand Program Director, Thoa Bui, has reviewed the Hague-compliant home study for the Levi family. The home study was approved today, January 12, 2012.

We should be receiving the official notorized approval achnowledgement, copies of homestudy, agency's approval letter and agency recommendation in the mail soon.  These are the last documents that we need for our dossier.